What I Mean When I Say I’m Sex Negative

• that sex positive feminism has little room for survivors of assault
• that sex positive feminism has little interest in helping people who don’t want their sex-life to be a coping mechanism from trauma
• that sex positive feminism prioritizes individual pleasure over critical thinking skills
• that sex positive feminism should be critiqued!
• that not all “kinks” are okay 
• that people are allowed to not be interested in hearing about your sex life
• that people are allowed to not enjoy sex
• that people are allowed to be scared of sex
• that no one needs to have or enjoy sex to prove how empowered they are

What I Don’t Mean

• I’m going to yell at individual adults who have consensual sex.
• I’m anti-sex
• I’m anti-kink
• I’m against coping mechanisms and survival

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    Yes.

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